6 Actions You Should Take If You Ever Want Her Back
I can’t stress this enough. It’s important to have a plan to follow, because after a breakup you are really hurt, emotionally and psychically drained and most of all, confused and down. And during this truly unpleasant state of confusion, you are bound to make a lot of mistakes that will actually ruin your chances of getting back together. Be strong, my friend.
When a relationship ends, what usually happens is either both parties end up hating each other, they continue to care for one another but acknowledge it will never work and move in their own directions, or one continues to pine for the other. The last scenario is always the most painful (at least, for the one pining) and can make an already difficult process even more brutal.
So once again, be strong. We will show you the rest.
Rule nr. 1.) There IS a chance. No matter how bad your situation is with your ex-girlfriend, there is a way to get her back.
Rule nr. 2.) Stop being jealous. Jealousy just shows insecurity and this is just the number one killer of attraction. Also all this begging and pleading makes you look like a needy, insecure person. And that is unattractive, very unattractive. If you are the jealous kind of person, then fight the urge to show this emotion around her. It takes self-control, I know. But be strong, it will eventually pay off.
Rule nr. 3.) Don’t pursue, don’t contact her. Sure, I know. This seems a little hard and counter-intuitive, but leaving her alone is one of the best ways of actually getting her back into your life. Weird, right? You have to do it in a very specific way. Simply not talking to her won’t do it. It’s actually tricky because you have to talk to her subconscious and make it seem like you really, really don’t want to talk to her. This is a tough one.
Rule nr. 4.) Be nice to yourself and work on your recovery. If you’re rattled that your ex dumped you, then there’s nothing in the world you can do or say right now to make her love you again. It’s just a fact. The more you force the issue with her, the less likely she’s going to want to get back together with you. Girls are like cats, men are like dogs. Don’t go back to them the same person who wasn’t ready, or who hurt them, or who messed up last time. Be as good as they deserve, and then be even better than that. But expect them to be better, too. You need to prioritize fun, trust and shared joy Winning her back is going to have to start with you. That means you need to stop pining and get your life back on track. Start working out more, pick up some good hobbies, hang out with your buddies. Embrace simplicity. Do not resort to extravagant gifts or anything dramatic or overwhelming. Do whatever you need to do to get over her and you’ll be well on your to getting her back into your arms in your bed. Be disciplined and hold on.
Rule nr. 5.) You don’t want to hear this, but start dating other women. This is gonna be your effective and deadly weapon. By dating other women, you’re killing two birds with one stone. First, dating other women is one of the best ways to get over your ex. And second, if she ever found out that you’re dating other women, then she’ll start beginning to get jealous and want you again. Once this happens, you’ll be ready to pounce and take her back (without her even realize that you’re using these tactics on her!). This is just an old game, usually played by women. Time to change the roles.
Rule nr. 6.) Seduction phase – be careful though. Once you’ve accomplished steps 1-5, you can start making her fall in love with you again by sending her Brad’s patented psychological techniques that I’ll tell you about in a minute. By using some of those techniques, she’ll be crying by your side, asking herself why she ever broke up with you.
Do you think it’s too good to be true? Well, it isn’t. I’ve seen this happen thousands of times. And it doesn’t matter if you broke up with your girlfriend last week or last year. Because those techniques just work, it’s been proven thousand times.
In the free informational video below, Brad will share with you some mind-bending secrets that will surely get your ex-girlfriend to start wanting to talk to you and hang out with you. And, if you follow the instructions properly, she’ll be calling you incessantly wanting you to go out with her.
Just don’t overthink it. The beauty of this approach is that it is a step by step blueprint, so you can just follow the EXACT instructions and get her back.
Fingers crossed for you (you don’t need it though…)