6 Actions You Should Take If You Ever Want Her Back

I can’t stress this enough. It’s crucial to have a solid plan you can follow because usually after a bad breakup you are really hurt, both emotionally and psychically drained and most of all, confused and really, really down. And during this truly unpleasant state of weakness and confusion, you are bound to make a whole lot of smaller and bigger mistakes, deadly sins that will actually ruin your chances of getting her back. But you know what? You still do have a chance! Be strong, my friend.


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When a long-term relationship ends, what usually happens is either both ex-partners end up sincerely hating each other, they continue to really care for each other but they both realize it will never work and move in their own separate directions, or one continues to pine for the other. The last scenario is always the most painful (at least, for the one pining) and can make an already difficult process even more challenging and truly brutal.

So once again, be strong. We will show you what to do. And what not to do. Ready?

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Rule nr. 1.) There IS a chance

 No matter how bad your situation is with your ex-girlfriend, there is almost always a way to get her back. Now, you’ll find a ton of articles on the internet telling you that she’s an ex for a reason. And they might be right. This is an important point – do you really want her back or do you just feel alone and want a company? That’s a huge difference.


Rule nr. 2.) Stop being jealous

 Jealousy just shows insecurity and this is the last thing you want. Why? Because insecurity is the number one killer of attraction. Also, all this begging and pleading makes you look like a needy, insecure person. And that is unattractive, very unattractive, a huge turn-off. If you are the jealous kind of a guy, then you need to overcome the urge to show this emotion around her. It takes self-control, I know. But be strong, it will eventually pay off. Being strong always pays off.


Rule nr. 3.) Don’t pursue, don’t contact her

Aaalright, here comes the famous no contact rule. Sure, I know. This seems a little hard and very counter-intuitive, but giving her space and leaving her alone is one of the best ways of actually getting her back into your life. Weird, right? You have to do it in a very clever and specific way. Just not talking to her won’t do it. It’s actually tricky because you want to talk to her subconscious and make it seem like you really, really don’t want to talk to her. This is a tough one but don’t worry, we’ll show you the way.


Rule nr. 4.) Be nice to yourself and work on your recovery

If you’re rattled that your ex dumped you, then there’s nothing in the world you can do or say right now to make her love you again. It’s just a fact and you’ll save yourself a lot of time by simply acknowledging it. The more you try and push the issue with her, the lesser the chance that she’s going to want to get back together with you.  Girls are like cats, men are like dogs. Don’t go back to them the same person who wasn’t ready, or who hurt them, or who messed up last time. Improve, step up, man up. Be as good as they deserve, and then be even better than that. But expect them to be better, too, don’t sell yourself short. You need to prioritize fun, trust and shared joy. Winning her back is going to have to start with you. That means you need to stop pining and get your life back on track. Start working out more, pick up some good hobbies, hang out with your buddies, have a mission and be centered. Embrace simplicity. Do not resort to extravagant gifts or anything dramatic or overwhelming. Do whatever you need to do to get over her and you’ll be well on your to getting her back into your arms in your bed. Be disciplined and hold on. Patience, patience, patience. They say that infinite patience brings immediate results and they are probably right.


Rule nr. 5.) You don’t want to hear this, but start dating other women

 This is gonna be your effective and deadly weapon. By dating other women, you’re actually killing two birds with one stone. Why? Because first, dating other women is one of the best ways (if not the best way) to get over her. And second, if she ever found out that you’re dating other females, then she’ll immediately get jealous and want to be exclusive again. That’s just the way humans are programmed. And once this happens, you’ll be more than ready to jump on and take her back (without her ever realizing what you did!). This is just an old proven game, usually played by women. Time to change the roles.


Rule nr. 6.) Seduction phase – be careful though

Once you’ve accomplished steps 1-5, you can start making her fall in love with you again by sending her Brad’s patented psychological techniques that I’ll tell you about in a minute. By using some of those techniques, she’ll be crying by your side, asking herself why she ever broke up with you. But we all make mistakes, right?


Bonus rule – rule nr. 7.) Be a man of value

 If you want to date high-value women, you gotta be a high-value man. I have already mentioned it in the rule number 4, but it might be the single most important part of the game. Einstein said “Try not to become a man of success, but rather to become a man of value” and I couldn’t agree more. Some people say “fake it till you make it” and there is a place and time for this approach, but really this is a short-term tactic. And you don’t want to be a pretender, you want to be the real deal. And you can be – it’s just one decision away. 

Do you think it’s too good to be true? Well, that’s just not the case. Trust me, I’ve seen this happen thousands of times. And it doesn’t really matter if you broke up with her last week or last year. Because those techniques just work, it’s been proven thousand times.

In this free video below, Brad will share with you some mind-blowing secrets that will for sure get your ex girlfriend to start craving to talk to you and hang out with you again. Simply follow the instructions and you can bet that she’ll be calling you constantly, wanting you to go out with her. Just give it a try, you’ll see.

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Just don’t overthink it. The beauty of this approach is that it is a step by step blueprint, so you can just follow the EXACT instructions and get her back.

Take action and watch the video now – you will thank us later

Fingers crossed for you (you don’t need it though…)