4. Make a new friend
Making new friends will protect you from thinking of your ex. On a positive note, he will be jealous that you are having fun without him, causing him to miss you. Therefore, whatever the case, this is a win-win situation.
He will think about your new life and might end up contacting you. Furthermore, every man is always jealous of seeing his ex, enjoying life with new friends after a breakup. He will try to make sure that you get back together so that he can prove that he was special to you.
You do not need to get a new friend that you are interested in. You can pick a random guy who knows nothing about you and play your part. It is right to note that simple things matter a lot in a relationship.
5. Ignore him
Nothing gets a man angry, like talking over the phone when he is mad at you. He will want to know whom you are talking to and what you are talking about.
The best way of getting your ex attention is by ignoring him. As Corey Wayne always says the best way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours. This way, he will be worried if you have moved on or not. Ensure that you give him the silent treatment, even if you meet him accidentally. This will prove to him that you do not need him in your life.
Knowing men, he will tend to think of it and start missing you. Therefore, he will try to reach out to you and talk about your issues. However, do not expect to make up overnight.
Lower your expectations as it takes a tremendous amount of time to win your ex back. If you are meant to be together, then nothing can stop that from happening.
6. Cut him off completely
Ignoring him is a different thing from cutting him off. Will he miss you if you leave him alone? Living your life like he never existed in your life will make him reflect more of you. Thus, this will eventually make him miss you more than before. Cutting him off will give him space to do what he wants.
The best part of doing this is that he will only think of you and how to win you back.
You only miss the sun when it starts to snow. Therefore, losing you will make him realize what he lost.
7. Pretend you have moved on
Yep, I said it. In this scenario, you have to play the role of a don’t care lady.
Meaning, you have to pretend that you are happy, even though you are burning from inside.
Make new friends and post photos of you having fun. Prove to him that you can live without him.
However, note that you are doing this to win him back. Thus, do not post offensive pictures that might push him away.
Do this because you love him, and you want to get back together. Always remember that pretending that you have moved on can also have adverse effects. He can even pretend all is well and suffer in silence by pulling away from you.
However, we are all humans, so do not expect him to burn inside and see his loved one varnish with no struggle.
8. Do not EVER beg him to come back
Never make the mistake of begging him for anything. Give him space when he pulls away. Always note that if he wants to contact you, no one can prevent him from doing so. Do not lower your self for someone who cannot make any effort to win you back.
Remember that, if he misses you, he will try and contact you. You still have your pride to protect. Do not do anything that you will come to regret later. You are better than begging for someone’s affection and attention.
9. Keep yourself active and busy
The chances of thinking of your ex when you are busy are minimal, compared to when you are not.
You will indeed have short memory episodes of your past. But, they will always be rare when you are busy.
Enroll in new classes or hobbies to keep you distracted. This will play a huge part in protecting you from thinking of him, and you will find new things to do in your free time.
10. Take time after he contacts you
How many times did you cry after he broke up with you?
How many scars did he create in your life after breaking up with you? Was it easy for you after he went into the dark?
You should also do the same if you went through a hard time after breaking up. You need to prove to him that you can live without him. Therefore, next time he texts you, ensure that you take your time before replying.
However, always make sure that you reply, even though it is after some hours. Do not show him that you are suffering since you have broken up.
Final Words…
Life is short to live a sad and boring life. Do not cry because it is over; smile because it happened. Breaking up with your fiancé does not mean that it is the end of your life. Go out, enjoy, and have fun. If it were meant to be, it would be. It may be trite but it doesn’t make it less true.
If you want him back in your life, follow the above rules. Remember that, if your ex loves you, it will not be hard for you to convince him. However, it will be hard for you to get him back if he does not love you.
Always maintain your dignity and pride. Do not act desperate. There is no perfect relationship on this planet. We all have our difficulties, and we always try to stick with our loved ones.
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