***Who so loves believes the impossible.*** ∼ Elizabeth Barrett Browning
He’s under the impression that he has the upper hand.
This is why he is telling his friends that you will do anything to get him back. He’s expecting you to go out of your way to salvage the relationship.
It’s time for you to make a stand.
If you don’t, there’s a strong possibility that he will take you for granted. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t appreciate you?
In this article, we will take a close look at one of the hottest topics around today. Should women reach out after a break-up or fight? Should you let him come to you after a breakup? Contrary to popular belief, women usually hold all the cards.
We believe that women should play it cool after having a heated argument with their better half. Let’s take a close look at 11 points that can help you deal with this sticky situation.
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1. Love Yourself
Experiencing a bad break-up can be a traumatic experience for any woman. This does not mean that you should undervalue the things you bring to the table.
This is the perfect time for you to look within. You are intelligent, beautiful, and caring. There’s no reason why you should not have unconditional love for yourself.
Loving yourself is the key to maintaining your self-confidence, self-esteem, and integrity. These things will bring you closer to his love once he reaches out to you.
Having time to yourself will give you the golden opportunity to evaluate matters. You will get a chance to re-evaluate your life, your priorities, and the relationship. Despite the outcome, you should always love yourself.
2. Do You Want to Let Him Come to You After an Argument?
Should you let him come to you after a fight? Are you interested in getting back with him? If so, you should consider allowing him to make the first move. If you don’t, you could damage your chances of getting back with him.
It is also important to point out that he will have more respect for you when you play the waiting game. I don’t want you to get the impression that we are trying to be mean, but you must put your foot down. This is the only way you will be able to get some respect.
What happens if you don’t make an earnest effort to get your respect? He will believe that he can run over you. This will not help you guys have a healthy and happy relationship.
In the end, you should let him come to you after a heated argument. This simple tactic will help level the playing field.
3. When Will He Start to Miss Me?
We know that it can be extremely difficult for you to wait on your ex-boyfriend to reach out. However, it’s imperative for you to exercise patience. If you allow nature to take its course, he may start chasing you.
It may take several weeks for him to realize that you are a real prize. It may not happen when you want it to, but he will eventually make an effort to contact you.
Men are known for having pride. In some cases, their pride clouds their judgment. This can make it difficult for them to process things correctly.
There’s an old saying in life, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” He will begin to miss you. This will force him to call or text you.
4. Does True Love Come Back?
We are not surprised that you asked this question. It’s not unusual for women to wonder if their boyfriend will come back to them. In many cases, true love comes back.
It’s normal for couples to have a misunderstanding. This could lead to a bad argument and a break-up. However, this does not mean that he is not the perfect guy for you.
With time, he will work his way back into your life. It may not happen overnight. It could take several weeks or months for you guys to work things out.
For example, one of my best friends and her boyfriend decided to call it quits after a big argument. She was devastated.
After several months passed, she ran into him at the library. They had a brief conversation and decided to have dinner later that night. The dinner date went well and they kept in touch.
They talked for five weeks and decided to give things another try. She’s extremely happy. As you can see, true love can come back.
5. I Walked Away From Him Will He Come Back?
This is a good question. If he loves you, he will come back after you walk away. He will eventually succumb to his feelings.
We know that you are too old to play mind games. However, walking away will let him know that you have other options on the table.
When a man sees this, he will have more appreciation for you.
Walking away will send him a strong message. You are letting him know that you will not be taken for granted.
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6. Use Social Media to Make Him Miss You
Using social media to your advantage can put you in the driver’s seat. When he sees that you are active online, he will get the impression that you are not in your bedroom crying over him.
Don’t make the mistake of posting messages that show you are having a hard time coping without him. If he sees these types of messages posted on your social media accounts, he will not take you seriously. In short, you will be giving him the upper hand.
Publicizing your emotions on social media is not a bright idea. It can backfire on you and make you look desperate. You should stay off social media during this period.
Being inactive on your social media accounts will make him wonder about you. The following questions will linger in his mind.
·Does she miss me?
·Will she send me a message via Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter?
·Has she met someone new?
It’s vital that we mention that posting smiley faces on your social media pages after a hard break-up will not work. You don’t want to mask your true feelings or emotions.
What will work on social media? You can post photos of you and your friends having a good time. This will let him know that you are moving on with your life.
Some women make the grave mistake of depending on men to make them happy. It’s your responsibility to make sure that you are happy. You are in full control of your life.
Once you start to realize these things, you will be able to take charge of your destiny. People will begin to see that you are a force to be reckoned with. When you realize your true power, nothing in life will be able to stop you from reaching your dreams.
7. Give Him Space and He”ll Come Back
He will not miss you if you call him or text him throughout the day. This type of behavior will annoy him. It will also push him away.
You will get the urge to call him or text him. This type of behavior is natural, so don’t feel ashamed. Keeping this urge in check will improve your chances of getting him back.
You must give him enough time to process the break-up. This will give him a chance to see what things are like without you by his side. He will begin to miss you.
Giving him space will be one of the best decisions that you can make during this period. He will pick up the phone and contact you. It may take some time, but he will call or text you.
8. Show That You Want Him But You Don’t Need Him
He’s expecting you to make the first move. Don’t fall into this trap. If you make the first move, there’s a strong chance of him taking you for granted.
Making the first move after the break-up can make you look inferior. He will feel like you are not worthy of his time. Do you really want to go through this?
This is why it’s important for you to have your own life. Your life should be filled with loving friends, supportive family members, and exciting activities. You really don’t need a man to make your life complete.
He needs to know that you would like to have him back. He also needs to know that you can live without him.
You cannot afford to put his feelings ahead of yours. You must put your feelings first. Your life should be your number one priority.
When you value yourself, he will begin to have more appreciation for you.
9. Use the Help of Mutual Friends Wisely
Mutual friends will not hesitate to express their feelings. They will go back and forth with their opinions. You can use this to your advantage.
You can tell them things that you would like for him to know. For instance, you can tell them that he chose to end the relationship. Don’t forget to tell them that you respect his decision.
If you want to take things to another level, you can tell them that you have met someone new. When he gets this message, this will trigger those emotions inside of him. He will begin to realize that he will lose you if he doesn’t make an effort to patch things up.
10. Playing Hard to Get
This may seem cruel, but there’s nothing wrong with you playing hard to get. What does this mean? This means you will not be available for every phone call or text message.
When it comes to responding to his phone calls and text messages, you should take your time. For example, let’s say he calls you tonight. You should return his call within two to three days.
Playing hard to get is an old strategy, but it’s extremely effective. This strategy will force him to give you the respect you deserve.
Should you let him come back to you? Yes, but you are not an option. You should be his number one priority.
11. Don’t Make Things Hard
He told you that he wanted some space, or he told you that he wanted to end the relationship. There’s no need for you to pursue someone who is not interested in being with you. You must let them go.
Let’s say he doesn’t come back. This means that you were never destined to be with him. You will eventually find a more suitable mate.
Final Word
Will he come back after a break up?
Getting over a failed romance can be challenging for any woman. Luckily, this does not mean that the world is coming to an end. You have your whole life ahead of you.
This experience can help you become a better person and a better lover. The next lucky guy will have full appreciation for you and everything you bring to the table.
According to Dr. Jill P. Weber, your brain has the ability to adapt and grow. This will help you if it’s time for you to move on.
He may have told you that it’s over, but this may be his way of asking you to give him some space. This is fine, but please keep in mind that there is no need for you to sacrifice your dignity and self-respect.
Let him come back on your terms. If you take heed to the 11 points listed above, you will be fine. Don’t forget that you are in full control of your life.
And if you are tired of the heartbreaking cycle of attracting a man you really like, then all of a sudden they are not interested anymore (or even worse – they just disappear)…
Then this might be the most important short video you’ll ever watch.
Because the truth is, those things can really sting and such emotional rollercoaster can take it’s toll.
Watch the video below if you are tired of attracting and then losing the man you want.
