***You cannot change anyone, but you can be the reason someone changes*** ∼ Roy T. Bennett
You’ve found the man of your dreams. He’s employed, funny, sweet, cute, and freaking adorable. Now what? You want to play it right so that you can capture his attention and make him want you as badly as you want him.
It’s more important than ever to learn how to play the fame if you’re getting a little older. You don’t have as much time as you once did. Here are 12 tips on how to make him want you more and more.
1. Put Effort Into Your Appearance
So, how to make a man obsessed with you? There needs to be a physical attraction between you and your partner. For this reason, you should take extra care to look nice when you know you are going to see your crush.
The first step in being attractive is regular hygiene. Shower and brush your teeth before your encounter. You want to be sure to smell good and look clean. You want to smell good, so be sure to put on a scented lotion or use a great smelling perfume. Try a unique (yet very pleasant) scent that will remind him of you every time he smells it.
You should also make a point to pick cute clothes, do your hair, and put on makeup. Be yourself, though. Pick a style that you feel comfortable in. You want to like what you see when you look in the mirror.
That doesn’t mean that you can’t look cute while being casual, though. If you prefer jeans or workout gear to fancy dresses, that’s what you should wear. However, make a point to make it cute.
You should also take some time to learn about his taste. If he mentions that he really digs a certain person’s look, you can emulate it a bit as long as it’s something you like, too.
But even more importantly, if you want to trigger strong feelings of attraction and adoration in a man, you have to know how to get on the same frequency with him.
How to speak to him in a language that touches a primal inner part of his mind and become a constant source of excitement, interest, and pursuit for him.
When you know how to do this, you’ll be able to deeply connect with a man, and powerfully attract him.
2. Have Your Own Life
It’s attractive when a girl has a lot of things going on. You should make a point to spend time with family and friends. You should also focus on work and your own unique hobbies. When you focus on work and your own hobbies, you demonstrate independence and the ability to live a life without him.
These are the things that make you stand out from other people. It also fleshes you out in his eyes. He will have a clear vision of who you are when he learns about the things you have going on in your life. He will see you as a fellow human being with interests and people in your life.
It gives you plenty to talk about and just makes you interesting, too. It’s okay to be a bit busy. Just make sure that you don’t have so much going on that you don’t have any time at all.
3. Don’t Appear “Easy”
Guys want the girl that everyone else wants. He probably doesn’t want the girl that everyone else has already had.
While it can be to your advantage to make him a bit jealous, you want to be careful. Hanging around too many different guys can make you appear like you’re already taken. This will stop him from pursuing you. Even worse, it can make you look like someone who will get with anybody. Avoid becoming intimate with anyone that your crush knows.
You should also be careful in your interactions with your crush. You shouldn’t be sleeping together casually, even if he does look really good that night.
You don’t want him to think that you are only interested in sex. You also don’t want to give him the impression that you only want a sexual relationship. Basically, don’t sleep on the first date. Wait until you see signs of their interest. Of course, it’s okay to kiss a little bit while figuring things out.
4. Give Him Plenty of Space
Guys don’t like to feel suffocated. You should go out of your way to give him plenty of space during your courtship.
You don’t need to hang out or even talk every day, especially in the beginning. After you go out, give it a day or two before reaching out.
You should actually wait for him to reach out to you. If he likes you, he will make the effort to reach out. If he doesn’t reach out in a couple of days, it’s okay to send one positive message saying what a good time you had. If he doesn’t respond, you should wait until you come across each other naturally.
5. How Do You Make a Man Crave You? Make Him Feel Good About Himself!
All guys like to have their ego stroked a bit. If there are certain things about your crush you like, say it.
You can also compliment their achievements. Of course, you don’t want to lay it on so thick that you embarrass him. Make your compliments meaningful. Pick something you know they like being complimented on. These small compliments will make him want to be around you since they make him feel good.
It can be a good idea to tease a bit while also complimenting him. For example, if he has large arms from working out, you could tease him about his shirts being too tight. You’re still complimenting him, but you’re razzing him a little bit, too. That doesn’t make you look too desperate.
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6. Flirt With Him
You don’t want to be overly sexual, but you also don’t want to come off as a prude, either.
You need to send out the right vibes. This means you should flirt a bit. Start with some basic things like smiling, giggling at his jokes, and touching him softly. Maybe even play with your hair a bit when you talk to him or apply lipstick in front of him.
These little things will send out the signal that you are in fact interested. You can up the anty a little bit if they seem to be sending the right signals back. Start making some jokes. Keep it playful. This is the fun part of courtship, so enjoy yourself a little bit.
7. Get Emotional
When you get to know someone, it’s usually pretty superficial at first.
You learn what food and movies they like. The more you get to talk to them, the more you will learn. Soon, you may start to learn the things that truly matter. You will learn about their family and their hopes and dreams. When you focus on these serious topics, they will develop a stronger connection to you.
Soon, they will see you as someone they can confide in. They will also see you as someone who knows about their soul. It automatically takes you up a notch in their eyes from the other surface-level friends. Now, you can’t force someone to open up, though. You need to let the conversation happen naturally. If you do see a chance for a meaningful conversation, though, you should jump on it.
8. Leave a Little Mystery
It’s important to leave a little mystery when it comes to the person you’re trying to pursue.
You don’t need to tell them everything about yourself right off the bat. Don’t tell him everything about your past, your family, your thoughts, and your skills. You should allow little surprises to come out with time.
Learning about someone is part of the fun of dating, so it’s a good idea to let these little surprises come out naturally. This will keep the guy interested to see what other tricks you might have up your sleeves.
You should also leave a little mystery as a woman. You don’t need to show off your morning face right away. You also don’t have to pick your nose, fart, or burp in front of them all of the time. It doesn’t matter who you are, it’s not sexy.
9. Experiment in the Bedroom
If you already have a sexual relationship with this person, it’s time to have some fun.
Sex tends to get boring or monotonous with time. You need to make a point to keep things interesting. Try on new, cute outfits. You may even choose to try toys and other different things.
That doesn’t mean you have to go out and buy a sex swing.
There are plenty of accessible options at the local sex shop. Make sure that you only do what you’re comfortable with. If your crush wants something that you aren’t into, you may just not be compatible in the bedroom. Don’t force things. Keep it enjoyable for both of you. That’s what’s going to keep it good.
10. How Do You Make Him Want You Bad? Talk About Him!
When talking to your crush, you want to keep the conversation on him. People like to talk about themselves.
It’s the egotistical side that we all have inside of us. Allow him to talk. Do not interrupt him, either. To help keep the conversation on him, you can ask a number of questions during your talk. Not only will you learn more about him, but you’ll also be a good listener in his eyes.
11. Set Standards For Yourself
You need to have standards for the way a guy must treat you. These standards describe what you will tolerate and what you will not tolerate.
These standards should have little or nothing to do with money and finances. Instead, focus on the way he treats you. You also need to truly believe that you are worthy of nothing less than those standards. When he notices you have standards, he will know that he has to step his game up a little bit when it comes to you.
Now, you don’t want to make your standards so ridiculously high that no man would want to put in that much work. You also don’t want to spell out a list of rules right off the bat. However, you can work them into conversation when the topic comes up. Some common standards are simple enough. You should demand respect. You should also demand that he has certain standards for his own life. The details can change based on your personal thoughts. Make sure that the person meets your standards before you set your sights on them.
12. Love Yourself
If you don’t love yourself, why would anyone else love you?
You need to demonstrate that you love yourself. Speak highly of yourself when asked. You should also show that you put effort into the things you do. If you love yourself, you will be the best version of yourself possible.
This means that you should take care of yourself physically. Eat well and work out since you love your body and want to treat it well. You should also put substantial effort into your professional life. This will help you be more successful and more confident. If you do struggle with self love, it will show. Work on self-love by going to a therapist. They can help you love yourself again.
You can also try writing down all of the great things about yourself and read them when you feel down. You should also surround yourself with self love quotes and people who help build up your self esteem. It’s attractive when someone is confident in the person they are and love themselves. That’s how to make him want you again.
Love is one of the most precious things in the world. When you care about someone, you will do just about anything to make them feel the same way about you. These tips will certainly help. Ultimately, you want to be your best version of yourself possible.
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