“You’re gonna miss me when I’m gone
You’re going to miss me by hair
You’re going to miss me everywhere
You’re going to miss me when I’m gone.”
By now, you may have heard over and over again that the “no-contact method” is the best way to make your Ex miss you and want you back.
The chance of him not missing you is pretty much non-existent, and he can pretend all he wants, but you know him better than that.
With some work on your part, you could even have your Ex chasing after you! Oh, what a sight to see as he makes a beeline back to you!
How to Act when He Breaks Up with You
Depending on the circumstances, how you reacted during the initial break-up will give you some insight on how the next few days will go. Will it be a short process? – Or will you need to extend the no-contact period longer to make the necessary changes in your life before trying to reunite?
One thing that can make a difference is if you can control your part in the breakup, try to keep your cool and not say things that will be hard to take back later. Just doing that will help a lot in the long run. Remember that emotions may run high at first, but usually calm down in a matter of days.
If you were angry, extremely emotional and irrational, or if there was a physical interaction during the break-up, this might take more time than just a friendly, “I think we need to take a break.”
Has your Ex decided to start “ghosting” you on social media and all other forms of communication? What type of contact have you had with him since your breakup? There is still time to come clean with whatever happened during the split, but you probably will need to wait and not initiate contact if you want to make your Ex miss you like crazy – and get him back.
And besides of the no-contact, one of the best ways to get his attention is texting.
Because when your man starts to pull away, the first thing to go isn’t his attraction for you… It isn’t his affection… And it isn’t his love… It’s his ATTENTION.
You can get his attention back quite easily – by sending a very UNIQUE TEXT to him.
This text message will send chills up his spine and make him want to see you as quickly as he can.
Watch this “how to” video now and try using that special “Desire” text on any man… and watch as he begins texting you like crazy.
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What is the No Contact Rule?
Looking at all the various explanations of the No-Contact Rule on the internet can be overwhelming. If you look closely though, you will find that they all give you the same necessary steps.
No-Contact means STOP communicating entirely. All forms of communication need to cease for a while.
Brad Browning has a wonderful point of view regarding the No-Contact theory, so don’t be shy, check out his videos.
The No Contact Rule –How Long is it Supposed to Last?
How long you should avoid all contact with your Ex will depend on how things have been going up to now.
If you have been contacting him, hounding him, calling and begging him to take you back then the no-contact period has not started.
It will actually begin once you have stopped all communication with him, so keep that in mind if you are tempted to text or call him. That means even if he doesn’t answer the phone, it is still a form of contact. He can see from his phone log that you are trying to contact him and may think it’s desperation, and that no matter what you do or say, you may not be sincere after such a short time apart.
The rule of thumb is 30 days, but could last as much as 90 days.
Does the No Contact Rule Work on Men?
Yes, men think differently about relationships, but they are human and have feelings, too.
Do you remember what it was that he loved about you? If you remember, then you have a chance to trigger those emotions again in your Ex.
But not right away, you have work to do first….
Why Is the No Contact Rule So Effective?
You have given yourself and your Ex a very precious gift, the gift of time. Time to heal, time to make personal changes and time for self-reflection. It is a proven method of the healing process and has helped scores of others who have come before you.